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22 Weeks

Pregnancy· Thoughts

11 Jul

I saw my OB, Dr. D, for my monthly check up this morning. It’s the first time I’ve seen her since being diagnosed with placenta previa and a succenturiate lobe so I had lots of questions. A quick reminder: Placenta previa (PP) is where the placenta covers the cervix which blocks the baby’s way out. It … Read More about 22 Weeks

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Five Months / Moving

Thoughts

9 Jul

We’ve moved! When we left New York in March 2011, we drove all the way to DH’s parents’ house in north county San Diego (with our dog on the back seat of the rental car). The plan was to base ourselves with his folks until we found a place to live in Los Angeles, 120 … Read More about Five Months / Moving

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20 Weeks: Halfway There!

Pregnancy

26 Jun

Four months ago today those two little blastocysts were transferred and here I am, 20 weeks / four months later, with an active little girl on board. I can hardly believe it! I’ve been wrapping my head around the news of my placenta previa and succenturiate lobe, and I’m doing much better than I was. … Read More about 20 Weeks: Halfway There!

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18 Weeks / Anatomy Scan

Thoughts

17 Jun

I’m trying to remain calm. Oh so calm. But I’m teetering on the edge of freaking out. I’ll start with the bad news. At today’s anatomay scan, I had to have my first trans-vaginal exam since graduating from my RE.  Long story short, not only do I have placenta previa — where the placenta totally … Read More about 18 Weeks / Anatomy Scan

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Reactions to Our Using an Egg Donor

DEIVF· Pregnancy· Thoughts

16 Jun

By now, at 18½ weeks, I have quietly shared the news that I am pregnant with plenty of people. I find myself grinning and often add It’s been quite the journey to get to this point! I should probably stop doing that, but for some reason I find it hard to separate the relatively short … Read More about Reactions to Our Using an Egg Donor

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17 Weeks: A Jumble of Thoughts

Thoughts

9 Jun

It’s uncanny how sharing one’s woes can sometimes help a situation. Two days after the meltdown in my last post, I found a place to live and we signed the lease on Saturday! My in-laws are fantastic, but I can’t tell you how much we’re looking forward to living by ourselves again. This place is … Read More about 17 Weeks: A Jumble of Thoughts

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Protected: Feeling Worthless

Be Careful...· Thoughts

3 Jun

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15 Weeks

Pregnancy

24 May

I’m behind in my blogging. It’s a combination of lots of work mixed in with a headache or migraine every three days, which makes everything more difficult. Such days mean either my morning is a write-off, if not the whole day. I’m not sure what triggers the migraines, but my best guess is constipation compounded … Read More about 15 Weeks

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Adjusting to My New Status as a Regular Pregnant Woman

Pregnancy· Thoughts

12 May

I went maternity clothes shopping for the third time over the weekend. My MIL and I drove to the outlets. On a Saturday. The day before Mother’s Day. It wasn’t a mistake, but it certainly wasn’t without some discomfort. The first time, buying a pair of jeans, the most uncomfortable it got was when I … Read More about Adjusting to My New Status as a Regular Pregnant Woman

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Thinking of You Today… Yes, YOU!

Thoughts

11 May

Happy Mothers’ Day to all of you wonderful women, whether or not you already mother living children: Whether you are thinking of your miscarried or stillborn babies, or the children who fought for their lives in the NICU; Whether you are on your first IUI, or your sixth round of IVF, or are fundraising money … Read More about Thinking of You Today… Yes, YOU!

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I’m Lauren, a London-born, Southern Spain-raised, San Diego-based writer, graphic designer, and reproductive warrior. And now I’m finally a mama to three kids (including twins), thanks to my fabulous egg donor. You can get to know me a bit better here.

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