During my pregnancy loss counselling session last week, I was told that pregnancy loss grief intensity is not proportional to…
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Mindfulness after Pregnancy Loss
Mindfulness is a state of active, open attention on the present. When you’re mindful, you observe your thoughts and feelings…
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Patience, Questions, Live
A Brighter Day
Today was a brighter day than others have been recently. Like an unwanted shadow, Grief is never far from my…
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Wisdom in a Friend’s Note
A friend of mine wrote me this message. I worry so much that I will never get pregnant again, or…
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D to the C: Dilation & Curettage
My experience of having a D&C was very positive. The pre-op visit the day before surgery had prepared me: don’t…
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What I Am Learning From My Miscarriage
(Yesterday I didn’t post because it was D-[&C] Day and I ended up having a general anaesthetic. It went very…
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Gratitude
It was two weeks ago today that I found out there was a problem with my pregnancy. I am still…
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Miscarriage: Ten Things Not to Say, and Ten Suggestions for What You Can Do to Help
I have learned here is no way to understand the heartbreak of miscarriage if you have not experienced such a…
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