It’s been two weeks since my D&C, which means I can now exercise, have a bath, have sex, and use…
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healing
First Milestone Date
Today marks the first milestone date: precisely one month or four weeks ago today I stared at the ultrasound screen…
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A Brighter Day
Today was a brighter day than others have been recently. Like an unwanted shadow, Grief is never far from my…
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Finding Jizō, Part II
Miscarriage seems to be something people don’t really talk about. The grieving period is private, personal, not really discussed. After I…
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D to the C: Dilation & Curettage
My experience of having a D&C was very positive. The pre-op visit the day before surgery had prepared me: don’t…
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Gratitude
It was two weeks ago today that I found out there was a problem with my pregnancy. I am still…
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Finding Jizō, Part I
There’s a reason the imagery of a pebble came to me the other day when I was trying to deal…
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Babybook: Owning My Envy
I am taking a break from Facebook, aka Babybook. It seems all it’s good for the past few years is…
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Understanding
If I had lost a leg, I would tell them, instead of a boy, no one would ever ask me…
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Miscarriage: Ten Things Not to Say, and Ten Suggestions for What You Can Do to Help
I have learned here is no way to understand the heartbreak of miscarriage if you have not experienced such a…
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